Episodes

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, our guest is Olive Okoro, better known as @digital.olive, Founder of Queer Motherland, creator, advocate, and community builder. In this special PRIDE MONTH episode, Olive joins the PODD for an honest conversation about being African, queer, and still choosing to belong fully to yourself. You know those conversations you’ll remember for a long time and that would change lives… this is one of them. This conversation explores what it means to exist loudly in a world that often asks queer Africans to shrink and what it actually takes to choose freedom, softness, community, and self-acceptance. Olive Okoro is on Am I Too Loud?! FOLLOW OLIVE at ⬇️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@digitalxolive Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/digital.olive TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@digital.olive Queer Motherland: https://www.queermotherland.org/about-us CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome Back & Happy Pride Month! 00:53 Birthday Plans 05:19 Coming Out & Being Queer as an …

PODD FAM 💚 After two weeks away, Am I Too Loud?! is back and better. This week, The Loud Report has moved to FRIDAYS and on today’s episode we have commentator, creator, and writer Simone Umba. We talked about Simone’s background, finding her voice online, and what makes good commentary in an internet culture where everyone has a take. Then they get into OUR FYP’s: Love Island USA and UK, Emma Grede discourse again, the FIFA World Cup, viral trends, creator economy drama, and the stories making everyone ask, “are we okay?” Podd Fam, I missed you. CHAPTERS: 00:00 Welcome Back & The Loud Report Begins! 02:20 Meet Simone Umba: Pop Culture Commentator & Creator 07:58 From Bio Major to Full-Time Creator: Simone's Journey 11:15 Love Island USA Deep Dive: Sincere, Melanie & Soul 17:31 KC & Anaya: Different Backgrounds, Different Love Languages 21:09 Kenzie & Corbin: Just Horny & Mixed Baby Dreams 26:57 Love Island UK vs USA & Treating Black Women Like Trash 29:00 Patrick Ta, Emma Grede & Pai…

It’s the 6 month mark of the year and, PODD FAM… we need to talk. not in a “my life is falling apart” way, but in a “wait, am i actually becoming the person i keep saying i want to become?” way. this episode is about growth, limbo, discipline, disappointment, ambition, self-love, and the very rude realization that being busy is not the same thing as being aligned. i talk about feeling like i’m growing in multiple areas of my life at once, why that feels so uncomfortable, what i thought this year...

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?, we’re flipping the TikTok trend “reasons why you wouldn’t be my friend” into a full episode: reasons why you shouldn’t listen to my podcast. In this solo episode, I’m talking honestly about what this podcast stands for — queerness, womanhood, feminism, honesty, loudness, and creating a space where we can tell the truth without shame. We are also talking about Patrick TA, Painted by Esther and Jackie Aina! This might be my favorite episode yet!! Join the #PODDFAM by streaming #AmITooLoudPod every Wednesday and subscribe for more loud, honest, unfiltered conversations. 00:00 IT'S ALREADY MAY!! 07:38 Hot Topic: Patrick Ta & Painted by Esther Drama Explained 12:26 Am I Too Loud If I Say He Didn't Owe Her Anything? 18:12 Cancel Culture, Accountability vs Crucifixion & Jackie Aina 22:40 We Need All Types of Black Women: Messy to Perfect 25:21 Why You Should NOT Listen to This Podcast 30:22 Don't Listen If You're Homophobic 34:17 I'm a Feminist & Women Don…

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, we’re finally having the money conversation. In this episode, I’m talking about my complicated relationship with money: growing up in Lagos, watching my mom give even when she barely had enough, learning to see money as a blessing instead of a tool, coming to America as an immigrant student, surviving college on basically fumes and prayer, and then suddenly making influencer money that completely changed my brain. We’re getting into the guilt of sending money home, the pressure immigrant kids carry, why boundaries are necessary even when you love your family, and how social media can warp your relationship with money when everyone online looks richer, younger, softer, shinier, and more booked than you. I’m also talking about my first brand deals, going from $150 a month to getting paid thousands for content, learning about savings, taxes, investments, financial responsibility, and why financial freedom is really the soft life. This episode is perso…

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?! , we're getting into ALL the tea from the past few weeks because your girl has been MIA and I'm back with opinions, gossip, and so much pop culture chaos. Trying out this new series where I share my loudest opinions around all things POP CULTURE! From Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson's breakup to the Met Gala 2026 fashion , the Rihanna vs Tyla vs Ayra Starr drama , James Charles dragging an unemployed fan , and Kevin Hart's controversial roast , we're cov...

PART 2!!! In today’s episode, Ismatou (On Our Terms) and Sofi (Am I Too Loud?!) sat down to finish the conversation from last week on sex, silence, shame, and everything Black Muslim women were never supposed to say out loud. In this part 2, we dive into relationships, dating and so much more. From our first boyfriends, to halal dating and to arranged marriages? They're unpacking first crushes, living authentically, dating experiences and what it means to truly reclaim your choice as a woman. Th...

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, we’re getting into Coachella chaos, so much internet drama from BRAN FLAKES and STARBUCKS to OLANDRIA, and Children of Blood and Bone and so much more!! From the reality of being a creator and losing friends, to why some conversations around sex, shame, patriarchy, and Black Muslim womanhood still feel so radical, this episode goes there. I’m also breaking down what Coachella actually is, why it’s called the influencer Olympics, my own experience with VIP vs. artist guest passes, and why I’m not there this year. We get into influencer hate, bran flakes, performative activism, Justin Bieber’s performance choices, Davido at Coachella, Revolve Fest drama, toxic fandoms, Black fantasy finally getting its moment, the Harry Potter reboot discourse, and why moving in silence is feeling more necessary than ever. Enjoy PODD FAM!! 00:00 Welcome Back & WITWIS? 02:46 The Reality of Being a Creator & Losing Friends 03:20 Crossover Episode with Ismatou & On Our …

IT’S ABOUT DAMN TIME!! In today’s episode, Ismatou (On Our Terms) and Sofi (Am I Too Loud?!) sat down for the conversation they've both been circling for years. The one about sex, silence, shame, and everything Black Muslim women were never supposed to say out loud. From the sex talk that never happened to the cultural double standards that shaped how they learned about their own bodies, this episode is raw, honest, and long overdue. They're unpacking what happens when religion gets weaponized, ...

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, it’s April Fools’ Day… so naturally I decided to do something deeply unserious and answer 55 spicy Never Have I Ever questions by myself. And let me just say now: some of these should’ve stayed in the drafts. Comment below: Which question was the wildest? And which one would YOU refuse to answer? 🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and everywhere you get your podcasts. 💚 Subscribe, rate, review, and send this to the loudest friend you know. YouTube: https://bit.ly/SubscribeToAmITooLoud Spotify: https://bit.ly/AmITooLoudOnSpotify Apple Podcasts: https://bit.ly/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts 🌐 STAY TUNED: https://www.amitooloud.com/ JOIN THE PODD FAM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amitooloudpod Twitter (X): https://x.com/amitooloudpod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amitooloudpod JOIN THE ODD FAM Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_odditty Twitter (X): https://x.com/the_odditty TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_odditty MORE FROM THE ODDITTY …

PODD FAM 💚, Today on Am I Too LOUD? , I’m opening up about one of the most personal and painful experiences of my life. In this solo episode, I’m talking honestly about pregnancy loss, reproductive choice, and what it means to live in a woman’s body in a world that always seems to have an opinion about it, the kind of thing we don’t usually say out loud, but probably should. I share my story, how it affected me mentally, how it changed the way I think about motherhood, and why my relationship to...

PODD FAM 💚, Today on Am I Too LOUD? , we’re talking about womanhood, femininity, power, identity, and why being a woman can feel both divine and absolutely unhinged . In this solo episode, I’m getting honest about what it means to become your own version of a woman in a world that constantly tries to define you first. We’re getting into the female experience , the pressure to be beautiful, desirable, soft, successful, healed, and somehow still easy to digest. I’m talking about self-worth, confid...

I HAD TO JUMP ON THIS ONE! This week on Am I Too Loud?! , we’re talking about jealousy - the emotion nobody wants to admit to but everybody feels. From friendships to relationships to career comparison, I’m unpacking why jealousy hits so hard, what it actually reveals, and how to stop letting it turn you into someone you don’t like. Comparison really is the THIEF OF JOY and we’re not letting anyone take our joy in 2026 are we?? 00:00 Why I disappeared! 02:25 The Reality of Being a Creator: No Br...

Welcome back to Am I Too Loud?! where today we’re discussing a disease many of us had in our 20s: being way too nice and calling it “having a good heart” 😭💀 In this episode, I’m unpacking the nice girl trap , people-pleasing, saying yes when I wanted to say absolutely hell no , overexplaining myself when I didn’t need to, and why being “easygoing” had me stressed, resentful, and lowkey disappearing. We’re getting into how this shows up in friendships, dating, work, and family, the guilt that hit...

POD FAM 💚 I have missed you!!!! In today's episode of AM I TOO LOUD?!, I’m talking honestly about everything that happened in the past few months, some pop culture catch up and a much needed podcast debrief and new year plans! I've missed you! Watch VIDEO Episodes - https://www.youtube.com/@AmITooLoudPod/videos If you haven't already... Subscribe to AM I TOO LOUD?! with the Odditty on YouTube https://bit.ly/SubscribeToAmITooLoud Or follow along on your other favorite podcast pla...