March 18, 2026

GOD IS A WOMAN, Teyana Taylor and the OSCARS recap | AITL?! EP 54

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Show Notes

PODD FAM 💚, Today on Am I Too LOUD?, we’re talking about womanhood, femininity, power, identity, and why being a woman can feel both divine and absolutely unhinged. In this solo episode, I’m getting honest about what it means to become your own version of a woman in a world that constantly tries to define you first.

We’re getting into the female experience, the pressure to be beautiful, desirable, soft, successful, healed, and somehow still easy to digest. I’m talking about self-worth, confidence, femininity, the beauty and burden of womanhood, and why so many women feel like they’re performing instead of fully living. Plus, of course, we’re doing an Oscars recap because baby… we need to talk about the looks, the moments, the energy, and what it all says about culture, visibility, and women being That Girl.

If you’ve ever struggled with confidence, femininity, comparison, identity, or becoming the woman you actually want to be… this one is for you.

00:00 Happy International Womens History Month
02:50 Teyana Taylor at the Oscars & Being Unapologetically Yourself
09:06 Respectability Politics & Bringing Joy Back
14:08 The Power of Feminine Energy
16:59 GOD IS A WOMAN
20:53 Growing Up & Finding Your Version of Womanhood
23:19 Learning Womanhood Through Trauma & Self-Discovery
26:21 The Many Facets of Womanhood
33:20 Choice is Power: Reclaiming Your Life
37:24 Women Are Taught to Be Chosen, Not to Choose
37:47 Quarantine, Self-Love & The Body Positivity Movement
42:01 Colonization Changed Everything for Women
45:30 Unlearning Society's Definition of Womanhood
47:20 Young Girls Are Born with Audacity
49:23 Why Powerful Women Make People Uncomfortable
53:16 LooksMaxxing & Learning The Audacity of a Mediocre White Man
55:08 Feminism is About Daily Choices
58:37 Reddit Questions: Relationship Insecurity & Self-Worth
1:02:51 Decentering Your Worth from Beauty Standards
1:11:57 Making Real Female Friendships as an Adult
1:13:58 Setting Boundaries Without Feeling Mean
1:25:39 Advice for 20-Year-Olds Feeling Lost
1:29:50 Girl Advice: Beauty Tips & Self-Care Routines
1:32:55 Final Thoughts: Never Apologize for Being a Woman