The Endurance Grand you don’t get to see - Ep 25

Hey guys, it's Sophie here. I just wanted to let you know that I messed up, but I am learning. So for the first about 20 minutes of this episode, it might not be the best audio, but it's a great conversation. But once I figured that out and you're going to see the look on my face when I do figure it out in this episode, the audio is super fixed. I pinky promise. So if you had to suffer through not the best audio, it's still great. So please listen to the end because it's such a great episode. One of my favorite people in the entire world. I love you and enjoy the episode. Welcome to Amai Tu loud the podcast. Hey up fam. Welcome back to Amai Tu loud the podcast. Sophie aka the mother for getting on with you guys. First of all, I am really proud of myself, okay? Because I said this entire thing by myself. Know how what's so ever. And it's our third podcast episode where I am not in my usual area. I am currently in a prod garner and this guest makes so much sense because of this. It was so much more. But first of all, hi, I miss you guys. It's been a whole week. I'm thinking for all the love of my last podcast episode blowing my mom. This entire season has been so heartwarming for me. So I am very, very, very, very, very, very, very grateful. And I love you guys very much. Okay, now that that's over, everyone say hi to all the comments. I've been getting a lot of comments about you guys miss Donald. Donald has been here behind the scenes. Every time I set up something, he's always calling to make sure things okay. But you're going to be doing this by herself and I'm enjoying it. Like I'm actually not on the road. Like are you not off doing this? Like it feels like I'm going to different places and introducing people that are really important to me and to you guys essentially. And I don't really do that a lot. So guys, this is special. Okay, like we're bonnet forever. Do you love me? Because I love me too. Harriet, thanks. My producer is behind. My name is Mommy Sweet. We're going to show you what's going on. This is in a little piece. I'll keep saying. But can I know? We're introducing the official second guest for a mind to allow the podcast. Someone who thinks he's too whole for school. Someone who's already relaxing and chill. I was introduced to myself. I was even saying. Was that a surprise? No, it's not a surprise. Inside the camera. Yes. I was like, oh, guys. I thought you might suit. Oh, my God. I was like, oh, I was something. I was bleeding. I looked at my white shirts and for clothes. Don't know. He's not going to cut you out. I'm going to talk to him. We're going to get a reaction to it. Let me see what you're going to do. I always know. I'll just like, yeah. Oh, my God. Hi, guys. The voice you're hearing, if you're not on YouTube, is my very, very good friend. One of the closest people to me, actually, close to humans, to me. She knows how to say a few words. She knows how to start the first. This is Endurance Grand, and she is one of the top creators, entertainers, dancers, all around overall icon out of Kragana, but it's all backstory to her. Here's the thing. This is the first one besides my long that I'm going to be introducing my friends to you guys. Oh, that explains something to you. If you want their backstory, their life, all of that stuff, they don't podcast. Oh, that's great. See, don't they don't they don't use. You're going to find those there. I thought I wanted to just hang out with my friends and we'll just keep here and have a heart. You want to ask me some questions so you can, like, introduce you to your contact. So people will follow me and so I'd be loud. For the most part, we're going to play games. We're going to, like, answer some bloody questions. I'm just going to vibe. Okay. Yeah. I like the fact that when you were introducing me halfway, you didn't just say I was a dancer. Like, most people like, they say the dancer, like, I'm not just a dancer. Like, my boss is really big and wide, so thank you so much for doing that. And I'm very bonded to be on this podcast. How good are you guys? I want to say that. You guys also, my thing about me is I definitely am very aggressive lover with my friends. So if I'm being very aggressive because I show love, when your background happens, first of all, like, I like what I did for my mom. Tell the people who you are. Don't be like my mom, because she never say, like, she's like, see my mom, you're like, we promised I'm going to wear things like, oh, well, hello, my name is, but introduce yourself a little bit. Okay. Where my name is? Hi, all right. He's like a glasses. All? Yeah. Hi, all right. I said, you know, when there is rent, I'm really on it to be on a muscle out of the podcast. I'm going to find all of your podcasts. I'm going to lie. I always watch it. Tell me the reasons I'm watching here. I'm a dance creator. I'm a choreographer. I'm always still trying to learn the white and the broader side of dance and choreography general. I'm a content creator and new to the filmmaking and business. Oh, yes, you're in a movie. Yeah. And I'll be more to come. So, yeah, I'm just a multi-talented person. Hey, join what she does in the entertainment industry. A member of DWP Academy in Ghana. So, that's what they need to know for now, I think. Okay. Another thing I'm going to ask you is, how do you, how do you make me? We met on social media. Okay. I'll just say a little because you know, as well, that's what I mean. That gets you both side. You also have good side. Okay. You watch two social media. I've been seeing you over my new day on social media. First of all, exactly. First of all, guys, you might not know some people because apparently because, you know, we're famous, like the audience are being huge names and stuff like that. And so, like, when I came across a lyricist page, I was like, oh my gosh, it's like really talented. I want to follow her. Mind you, she knew about my, did not follow me because I didn't know why. I just didn't see it. I just felt like, I just felt like this, you know, she's confidence, she's showing her blunt teeth and stuff like that. Yeah. When we're in a bikini in your room, bikini inside room, I was like, I'm sorry, what was that bikini inside your room? That's a point. Okay. That's how I, that was the first one that I saw. Like, okay, she's very confident in stuff. But then, I just passed, you know, but then what you followed me, you see why that person was blue, but you're not blue, right? I do. I have Instagram, they show the show, it's like that's the famous priority notification you get. Yeah. Yeah. I opened it and I was like, what did you follow me? Like, what did you have to see? And I tapped on it. I was like, oh, I was like, no way. And I was like, what a small world because it's crazy. Yeah. You followed me first, actually. You guys should follow the first. Yeah, because I feel like the one has to do, like, you know, make sure you understood, like, oh wow, the star. It's like following you well. I don't think that was the reason. No, no, it was. Even sometimes like the following people would just be like, oh, I want to see what it is. You know, that and stuff. Yeah, you know, that wasn't the impression. I don't know what it was. Do you sense something you might want to do? No, no, look at what you're like. Let's watch what you get to find. I'll say, you said, you said, my goodness, oh, my god, like, you inspired me so much. I didn't ask if you were going to answer all that drama. Like, this is why I'm so much. I was just watching you right now. And you were like, do not. Do not. Once you, like, dance to do it, please, Daniel, shout out some things. No, not just because that's what I'm supposed to do. That trend was crazy. Because you guys, I saw, I wanted to, first of all, let me explain. And the person I wanted to talk about, just thing is going to be on the podcast really soon, and I mean, if I want to put it on, I'm separate of it together. I think she knew it together. Right. Right. Together. Yeah, they did. So I'm okay. Okay. Okay. I'll have you today, that's something I thought I could. But the point is, I want to learn, like, walk. And so I'm ticktocks really one time. And I said this to a team of you. I said this girl, dancing, right? And she asked two people. And she's like, doesn't know, you're like, what's moving? And I'm like, I wish I could do that. And so I would take it to Justin. And I was like, can you teach me how to do this? I'm just like, I'm gonna sit competitive. But I was watching it to learn. And so I finally saw you again online. I was like, well, maybe I would like, learn to dance. You don't have a good answer? No. What? No. You're not. What? You're not. I shouldn't talk about that. You haven't seen you. Like, you can't do it. Everybody knows how to dance. You did. Hey, you know why? Because I'm so pleased with the way you sing songs. That's different though. No. I feel like you cannot sing songs. If you know, if you sing song, lyric, but like, first of all, that's it. You know, go feed that before listen, so that we can get it too. So I'm not about to get it too. You know, that's where that Hey, you're about that. Yeah, okay. You know, it's crazy. It's like this. I've ever seen your podcast. Wow. What does that say? It's like this. I've seen you. I've been laughing and I've been laughing. It was probably having everyone who he confessed to. Yeah, I'm going to take him back for a bit because you mentioned that's big important to you. So what was life really like for you before dance popped you? I say dance popped you. So what's it like? I think you found each other. Okay, my left was you said, you said, you know, you wasn't. You were asleep. I passed from the fan dance. I know what I was doing. I probably thought that had my family like, yeah, deep. I felt and my left was used was like, even if I was asleep, like, there was some of that feeling. Yeah, it was there was a feeling. I can't explain it to people. Like, it was a useless gift. I didn't want to give up or kill myself. Did you have any meaning? Oh, and then he got you dreaming one day and then that's gone to you. You could say dancing. I was on dreaming. I had the talents. Oh, okay, because we've done it. But I didn't do it too much like before. I was doing it for fun. I was just doing it for fun. But then I just going to wake up before I was there. What most tried? I was like, yeah, this was okay. I want to just try. So like, we don't know you. I've been like, put all your stuff in the description. What would you say? Like, how should I find you first? Like, what do you do now? Like, what is your thing? My thing right now is dance. Okay. Random contents. So I think you're funny. You think so? Yeah, if you're funny. I think like, you have a huge arsenal of things that you could send me to. It's like, I always say that, I always say that. Guys, every time we have conversations, right? And I say different words. And they're so like, why do you say that word? Like, what would you just say that? Because personal friends are sort of things. It's like, like, like a collection of things. Like, you have a thing. So you should have said that. No, because our soul fits it better. No. Yes. You are trying to be very complicated. No, it's not complicated. We are friends. There's nobody here. Just saying collection of certain. So that move through better. We don't say arsenal. No, that's supposed to mean. And then you don't make me ask you so that you can realize it. You can't realize it. You can't realize it. You can't realize it. No personal. So what do you think I do? No, well, like, do you speak your English? Like, normally, it's just 12 fourths now. Yeah, well, I'm saying and our soul thinks it's just, that's the word for it. It's for the thing I'm trying to pass. Anyways, moving on. You don't fight me already. We're not doing all this stuff. Okay. So let's just talk about, like, creatively found dance. How do we, like, start changing your life? Because for a lot of people, like, when I start content, I feel like I was smart with my content. And guys, again, if you're, it's very important, so listen to this. Where are you? How are you? I feel like those days, we feel like somebody do up. No, that's your trigger. A voicing tool. No, no, no, my mind is better. You're mine. I don't want to tell you. You're a trace. I don't think you can. That was my thing. That's what's the thing. That's not true. From your makeup. To the way you're talking. And you put the new, and it's from the new. I'm cloning as you are. No, we have no you are. Well, I hope I'm going to point to point. And it's like, I think I've found success with the creator in America. That's good. So I'm not doing the marketing. The endurance is not drinking in, right? Like what? You never feel to let people go with you. Every time, every single time. What do you think about that? Every time you're there. If you don't know, my name is the audience. I'm very grateful. My head was white and yours. We'll be seeing that too. Every time I know who was the new person watching me. So I wanted to know who I am. They got two. They got steady. Okay, that's your question. Anyway, I feel like you're not getting stressed. I'm talking about you as well. You're listening. As I was saying here, I start, like I started off with I'm doing content in America, right? And I feel like I've found success within the American market to an extent. I wouldn't say like, I'm super successful, but I feel like I'm getting there. And there's so many things that have me as a creator I struggle with. Yeah, but I feel like you're not. Hey, find cities. I don't want any beef between the countries. Okay. Okay. But like, transparency hour, when I mentioned, I didn't know there were that many creators in Ghana. That's advice. I just didn't. Like maybe it's just the selfishest of being Nigerian. That was in play. Well, a lot of my other than didn't reflect getting creators. I knew a lot of Nigerian creators. I didn't know that there was like a sort of like a sphere of creators in Ghana. And then it created to have like 11.8 million fucking followers on TikTok. For me, I was like, oh, wait. Well, I also, you're half Nigerian. So like, yeah, you're not being in. No, you get to see a point. So sorry, my bad. The point. The point is you've found success within a market that like, you've had to, do you think you have to fight for it? Do you think that you come like, I wouldn't say you come easy to you, but that's such a niche, right? That's the niche. Like, for example, you're in a movie and all these things. And like for some of them outside creative looking in, I'm like, I love black creators in America. I would be like, like, how do you get to that point, eight little followers? Who like love you guys? Like your grand, she used to. There it is. I tried. Yeah, I was messed up. But yeah, grand, she's like, love you down. And we're talking earlier today about content creators around like the world and how like the heights work. And you just, you have it down, but you've just done it. You've done it well. So he inspired me a lot. I didn't talk about that. I can't really tell me that. I don't, I don't, I don't think that I don't have it's the way I want it yet. I am looking for what I have been. You don't have it with the way you want it yet. Yeah, really. Yeah. Okay. Let's have just like, char? Yeah. Let's do more. It looks really. Yeah. Okay. Guys, look, I want to publish myself, but I am also very deeply grateful for what I've been able to or what I've been able to accomplish. Yeah. I think what I've been able to impact and influence over the past two to three years. And I just want to let you know that I'm not, I've not got some days. So do you think that if you will have a percentage, we're going to be like from zero to percent to 100%. What do you think you are right now? About 14. I would say I'm a 30. Really? Yeah. Do you think so? I swear. You? Yeah. You? Yeah. I'm so, I'm so serious. Because I feel like everybody like, numbers don't always equal everything, right? Oh, I don't think you're something about this. But I think I make a lot of money as a creator. I'm so grateful for that. But I don't think I have enough all what's the word to visibility. This is visibility yet. So like, I don't think I've seen as I want to be. And I feel like you have, you're both seen and you make about a 22. So like, in my head, I'm like, you're at a 65, 70. Yeah. Yeah. Like, we don't know what that I need to do now. Well, you compare yourself to. No one. Exactly. So that was your, like, what else could you potentially want to do? Give me one thing about all this over your head that you want to do. House. Okay. Well, that's like, like, we estimate. You want to build houses and houses. Like you said, I want to build houses. Really? Yeah. Do you think what's stopping you from right now? What's stopping me from doing that? Okay. Intentionality. Oh, like money. Money and just to be disciplined with knowing how to invest and see my money. Do you think it's, do you think the market you're in and is a huge factor in that? Like, do you think if you were, if you lived in America, if you lived in Nigeria or South Africa, or you know, this would be different? When it comes to what? Like your dreams. I don't, I don't, I think so. I don't know. Really? I don't know. I think it would be different. Let me speak for you with that one. Are you talking based on culture? No. Just in like general. Like, I think if I lived, and people, I mean, my first season with my stuff, I think I've always said it a lot that my audience explained this a lot. I'm sorry. At least I don't want to stop talking. So what context? Okay. When I first started, I would always say I wish I was an African preeger and also an African in diaspora, because I think there's a difference in how we're able to find success. The opposite. But then I feel like, I feel like way far from the diaspora. That's what you say, right? Yes, well, what you found yourself and the amount of work you've been able to work in for yourself and influence you've been able to achieve here. You didn't achieve in that year, right? Yes. You actually did see America. Yes. For some weeks, one times more. But you didn't. Okay. You did it. I mean, meaning the universe wanted you to be there. Okay. What? The universe wanted you to be there. Yeah. And it's not easy for someone to make it outside the African zone. Outside when they've been, do you understand? If you're able to make a name for yourself, you get your own, you can buy cars at a time. For a normal crunchy. You're really able to, like, like, if I'm normally taking it, you have people at home, you have people at home. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. You are supposed to be there. I get that. But I'm supposed to be in garden. I don't know. I don't really mean it was meant to happen. That's why it happened. I'm going to stop for that one. Wasn't the outfit just like that? Fun said. Okay. That's like perfect. You know, it's my next question. Thank you. What do you think people like misunderstand about creators who come from struggle or African? Because I don't know. I think they misunderstand. Yeah. What do you think they, like, what do people not understand about creators who come from here? Because, like, you are a creator who I know, like, we're going to move you right now. I'm a professional man that I've got to watch. I had a private screening. Why, why, why? Of course, that one's hit. That, that. You guys, in the, oh, don't dance. Don't dance. Just talk. You have one, two, three, five, so it's so what's useful. So, don't do that. Don't do that. Well, I'm saying that. What's it out there? But it was, so in your movie, that's coming out soon. You're an African creator. And that would be going out to, like, the entire world. It was in New York when I watched it. It was really, really good. And the joke I was talking is in our opening scene, you just hear Dura say, that, that, that, really, that. But it was so good. Well, like, for the one I was watching, the director made comments about how they were intentionally about investing in African creators in Africa. And you just don't know the really cool stuff as an African creator. But as someone that has branches around the world, so I think there's no life here on the continent. Like, people don't see that part of it. So, what do you think the reason is, it's through those, I don't know. I think it's based on in generation up perspective. It's based on generation up perspective, because we look at it, like, doing that those times, like, people are used to embrace and accept the fact that, big enough, we can, like, you can't still make it outside, like, where you're from. What's the name? Like, Africans, we're making names right now. We are. And they're finally to have to just embrace, embrace the fact that just because of the color of your skin, you're able to excel in just to do so much. So, I think that's the way it's from the generation up perspective, yes. I really like that answer, because I think it was absolutely true. If you look at things that we get to do, like, my mom, when she was lying there, she just, she was like, this does social media. Now, I didn't know it was that deep. It's like, oh, you might not know where you'd come from, or you might, you know, my come from, like, very, very beginning, or they were able to do so much. Through social media, the parts of social media, that's what I think it is. It's a bunch of things that you know, because you see, mom, mom didn't, then she didn't, like, she was so there. So now it's like, I like the fact that some people want to embrace it. And your mom, like, the fact that she said that she's not sitting in the front that's okay. This is like, because that's my favorite part of what you want to do. It was really good to hear. Yeah, I think like, this is a millennial, like, probably a millennial, but she doesn't like it. Yeah, no, this is like, what's the point? Yeah, the millennial is a good thing, no, of course it is. Yeah, it's good to know. All right, it was good. I'm James Z. James, I see her like creating content, so okay. Yeah, I think it's like really cute, like, watching that generation, all right. I never, to tell, let me give you like, let me most of you, well, I didn't see myself to be in the entertainment industry. Really? Yes, I always thought my sister would be the one in entertainment industry. I can see that. All right, now she's the one that's reserved and she's the one that doesn't want to involve herself with anything. So she just wants to learn how to poke people to create things. Guys, for context, I'm really closer to their sister as well. Like, that's my guy. Like, sometimes it's for me to ask. That's my, for real. Like, that's my, she long-term love for a guy when we sleep, but for her handle too, it was like, shut up there. So it's a really mind of us. What's up with it? What? Oh, so we're really, really close and just, she's so talented. Like, I was just saying, she keeps you laughing 24-7 and she has so much potential with content too and seeing her and navigate to talk and everything too. I see her being like, you're a sister and I'll close your office. You don't let a little people in. Yeah. So like, the fuck are they doing now? Like, yeah, yeah, yeah. But like, no, I know, right? But no, like, I'm talented at consistency. For example, I struggle a lot being, I think we talk about this being a lonely in New York and not having like a really good community. And I've seen firsthand, every time I come to God, I see the community you have. Why see like your sister is going to be the same going. But you're sister. She is that wonderful. So I'm okay. You get me, I feel like that's one of the reasons why I'm okay. I have everything in one person here. On your part, I think what's is doing the fun that breaks our students' schedule. And you find it, you find, I don't know, I tend to be corrected, but you find it hard to separate fresh from like having or when I thought having having colleagues and mentors. Like, it's hard for you to know, okay, it's my content, okay, it's all means. And this is not my friend's time. They were talking me the other day because I met someone on the plane. I was like, oh, I'm at a friend on the plane. That's so good. That's, that's, it's raining. Do it. Yeah. That's nice. You watch the old you. Yeah, just a little to come here. Oh, the voice. Oh, the voice. Oh, oh, wait, what's going on? Yeah, that's, I feel like that's on your part. And to touch yourself from the community over the end. Yeah. You are talking about like getting to know them more and, you know, yeah, that's really very interesting. I think that's it. That's true. I'm, yeah, I think so. I'm learning. I'm learning the environment because I think I, the last episode, I'm sure you do this about friendships. Well, I guess I'm like, everything's like, thank you. Yeah, you're so fun for me. Yeah, I mean, a lot of things. But I can't, I guess so. I'm learning now with them. It's quite a little deeper content than your friends. In fact, I feel like when we first met, we didn't hear any content to get up. And you were always asking questions about like, why we weren't in the music. First of all, I'm kind of saying what I say. Darius, Darius is fine. The off-fam, let's actually talk about this. Let's talk about this. Let's explain this. Oh, okay. How are you guys doing? Because it's good that you brought it to me. Thank you. The off-fam, I think you guys are really slapping. And they heard something like that because the grangies are evil. And I'm telling you, I did a video with them. The grangies. And they have a thousand followers all coming from her. And I get it just a little point even when they're doing it in time. Well, it's insane the power of the whole off-fam was like, don't, cut this crosshouse out. It's your life. I'm constantly cut from it because it's gonna back to it. It was. Well, like, your friends are so intense. And just, I don't think I've actually seen this out loud. And me and a lot of my friends from are African who also in the dress rooms are probably a lot. The percentage is a huge part of how we get money in the dress room. Meaning, if I have 35% of a major in audience, I don't think I'm going to work. 25, 29% I do. Like, the patterns are all the same. So, wait, well, in America, again, the percentage of cases based on the major ones, yes, in America. It's like thinking about for Americans perspective. Why would I, an American company pay someone who only has, but then you're following money for the American brand? It makes no sense. So, hello. So, when we first met, I saw how much, how many followers you had. And I was like, don't put three. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I tell you, you said you said this a lot. Guys, if you hear a difference in the audio, it's because I was not recording into these mics from the halfway. How many minutes has it been? Let me see. Has it been 30 minutes? Has it been 30 minutes? What are you doing? I said I'm sorry. After bluffing right at that, I said this stuff on myself. I do know. This is what's set up. I'm going to keep this in the video. Don't know. Don't know. Don't know. Don't know. Do you want to know? Don't know. Start over. Start over. How can we start over? Right. It wasn't really nice. It's true. The audio works. It wouldn't be as good as this way works. Well, lie. Don't know if it's going to try his best. He's going to try his best. Which I call him. Thank you. We know. Don't know. I love you so much. Don't know. I love you so much. I respect you, bro. From time. From time. That's going to kill me. But guys, we were talking such good. I'm so upset myself. It's okay. I feel like you're energy. I feel like energy is bad now. I don't want to continue. My energy is not bad. I guess it is. We should try. It's good. Basically what I was saying is that was why when we first met, I wasn't even about the entire time. That was why when we first met, I didn't want to be posted because I didn't want to affect that balance. I don't say this a lot, but I'm very careful about making sure I am navigating being a creator in the diaspora and being here on the continent at the same time because I don't want to mess up. I still need to eat, I make money. I have to figure out how to do both while still maintaining true and maintaining my own truth, essentially. So yeah, that's what I was trying to say. About what? I don't remember. No, because she's a lock going on. But come on, say it. I wanted something people would never guess about me. Because you know me so well. That's so random, I know. What's something people would never guess about you? You want me to say that? Yeah. Yeah. What would you say? No. Like, how are they deep on me? What do you think people would never guess about me? Maybe that thing was never for them to hear. It could be. Yeah. Don't say that. I'm like, what are you going to say? You can say something. I could believe it out if it's not. It's only three of us here, so it's fine. Well, they didn't think they know about you. Yeah. What is something who would never guess about me? I know one, and then you could say one. Do you never guess about you? Do you never guess about you? Do you want me to say one about you? Do you never guess about you? Oh, no. Who's fart? Yeah, for you. You don't know that. I fart a lot on my podcast all the time. They know you fart, but let's say it's me. Do you know your fart smells? It smells for your personality. Like, what does that mean? It means that your personality is not much the smell of your fart. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. I don't know if they know this about you though. Promise. Like, taking an oath with Sophie. Like, you promise that, okay, we're doing this. I promise, we're doing this. I'm okay about it. Sophie does not mind. I've seen 10,000 times over and over again, because I care about what people want to do. Why would you? I want to make sure I'm not because I've been told a lot of times that my personality is so imposing. So I want to make sure they're not mainly doing decisions because that's easy because the wrong people are telling you that. It's not their opposition. It's not their opposition about me. You say it's a conversation. I'm done. And then one thing I think we will not guess about you is how much you love like Adam Sandler and Jennifer Anderson. And I was like, what? Yeah. I think you really, really, really don't know that. You don't know that. Like, she's so into like all those like, 2,000 romcom comedies weird, weird, weird, weird, very, very weird movies and shows. She never watches them with me. No. And I feel like that's so, that's so, that's so unfair. Yeah. That you wouldn't watch that with me. But watch any movie. That is not true at all. You don't watch movies. What? Wait. I took my part. We don't watch movies together because I watch movies very, very loud. And you're a silent watcher like here. So I'm just going to press it like, hey, what am I lying? You are, you are annoying me. That's why I don't watch movies with you because, because I'm a very tough. Because you don't talk too much. The reason why is the movie is because we're supposed to pay attention, right? There's a reason why it's for the first time. For the first time, I've always wanted to watch Sinus in the movie hours. I watched him. I was quite a theater, a relaxed face. I come. I wanted to watch Sinus at the theater. It's a theater cinema. Sinus, all of this. But then, my friend called, said, don't we watch Sinus? She watched Sinus. I said, okay, what am I not to say? Who am I not to say? That's what Sinus. We're watching Sinus. I didn't get to do something with our phone. Like, you are in your life. Okay, first of all. So now, now, now, we are not the ones saying, uh-uh. When we go online, we are saying people talking deep about what we were like. Did you mean something? No, we have to rewatch Sinus again because like, you, first of all, I am just, I'm very embracing kind of person. Meaning, I am excited when I watch stuff. I want to know how it ends before it ends. So I'm going to Google it and then watch it a lot. Watching the movie and then she's like, what's going on? I'm curious about it. Because we want, because that's what I tend to do. If you're not going to the cinema, we're like, you should be shaking. Yeah, you gotta keep your composure like, you know, whatever. Oh, wait, this is fun. What is one woman with me that makes you go, oh, this girl is actually crazy, but in the best way. When, when you told me, very, well, you're not going to love is that? What you told me, you can't say L.O.L. very badly. And you love? So what did I want from you? If you say, I swear to God. And laughter is like, she's like, you're accelerating like, she's like, ha, ha, ha, then she accelerates it. Anyways, she said she can say L.O.L. verbally, but it's not funny. She just won't say it. No, it was L.O.L. like it makes, because I'm like a bubbly person. And it means it's not funny. No, there was a time that she said, hmm, L.O.L. I was like, don't you advise your life. After what you've told me, don't you advise your life L.O.L. me again. You get me. Yeah, that's that's one thing I had. I was like, she's crazy going in the fun way. That I will never get over this. Mine is just watching your life. What about my life? Yeah, when you go live with TikTok. I feel like you don't spend time watching my life. Oh, I do. Because you feel like, you always say I talk slow. No, not your life. So you're crackheading your lives. Yeah, you'll be jumping on tape. We're jumping on chairs. So if you watch stuff on two X, why? Two X. How does that have any sense of difficulty? How does that have any sense of difficulty? Sophie, watch your stuff. You watch your two X as well. Me. No. So famous is that they have that in common. My second reason to avoid it. That's why that's my guy. That's why that's my guy. That's why that's my guy. That's why that's my guy. That's why that's my guy. They can't tell you what they said. You watch a video in two X because our brains move faster than people are talking. So we want to make sure they understand what's going on. All right, we're going to go into would you rather questions? You have to answer them. Honestly, okay. All right. Would you rather I feel like you've done this already, but I'm not sure. Mm-hmm. Insert. This is an answer. No, it's no. I'm saying it's. I had to insert. Is that celebrities that I, I just inserted, but if you want to change the celebrity, you can. Would you rather choreograph for, I feel like you might have done this already, for Beyonce or go on tour with Brenda Boy? Oh, can I switch it? Would you rather choreograph for Beyonce or go on tour with Iris Star? I would want to go on a tour with Iris Star. Really not Beyonce? Why? In as much as I would love to choreograph for Queen B, I love her. I would also want to I like Iris Star. So I want to go on tour with her because when you tour, tour is not just one day. Mm-hmm. It's a lot. So if it's a lot of days touring with Iris Star, I get to learn a lot of stuff. Mm-hmm. A lot of stuff when it comes to performance, her performing, when it comes to how to manage the stage. Yeah. And I get to collaborate with a lot of, what's it called? Creatives. Creatives and choreographs as well. I'm going to make that deeper. When it comes to camera, like a lot of things about production. But you have so much. And I really want to get an idea. I feel like you chose that too because as an African, you want to spread, it feels like it feels a more of a connection to like work with people who might understand you better. Exactly. If I got a question about like where would I want to work, like I would always say Nigeria, like I always say like I want to work with Nigerian creators because it just hits different when you're able to flow better with whoever you're working with rather than like being, I must say this will happen with Beyonce or anybody. Well being like the token African or the Black person day and the person who's still in the month to do this and do that, it feels very more connected when it's your people. And like you're able to do steps that we would know too. So yeah. Okay. I agree with you. Would you rather give up TikTok forever or never dance again? I'll give up TikTok forever. Really? Why? I can't imagine a life that doesn't have dance and it's only constant. I love dancing. I love dancing. There's a part of me that I can express that doesn't need words when I dance. And I feel like when as long as I have dance, I can still make my parts. That's true. We have some rapid fire questions now. Rapid. Yeah. Like you just have to answer. You can't think. So you can't pause. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Craziest DM you ever got. Craziest DM. Mm-hmm. And you tell me I know I should not think about I could do a lot of crazy DMs this one. When it comes to what? And girls. Yeah. Pick one. Craziest DM. Yeah. I feel like fire. The better the fire has already come to born. Craziest DM I've ever bought this. Should I give you the context or? No, just say it. Uh-uh. Let's hear the context. Let's go out on the date and have a one nice stand. That was one of it. One of it does. One more set up? Yeah. Like doing it. I only just get like, I think Craziest DMs I get is always like someone wanting to lick my head and they'll pay me for that. Don't leak your head. Yeah. Like they'll pay me to lick my head. Like they'll say like, I can pay you extra amounts of money to lick your head. Do you reply? No. Should I? And when you reply, I feel like I was there. Why? And like you want me to reply? I'm like, no, no, just still. Why? I feel like it's probably because it's a thing. People are like, there's a fetish in my head. I feel like when you ask me why, there's a tendency that's, woo, tendency. There's a tendency that's, they have to go cough. They'll be confused. But you say, ooh, there's a tendency like that. Yeah. Okay. Last time you cried in why? Today. You did cry a lot. I cried today. I was really crying. She was crying. She was crying. I mean, it was not that I tried once. You didn't know she cut her? I can't. It's when I went on to sing. Oh. I cried. The last time I cried was today when I was having my, is you? My physiotherapy. Yeah. She has an injury that she's going to be posting a documentary about. You should be doing a documentary about it. Yes. Okay. That's coming soon. So I'm not going to say too much about that. But just know that's why. Okay. Your dancer egg. My dancer egg? Yes. What I don't like to see, right? Yeah. From dancers as a dancer. Trying to recreate something a choreographer has created. Ooh. Okay. Because unless the choreographer or the creator of the dance has told you have fun with it or recreate it in any way, style it in any way you want to do it, I feel like you don't have the rights to do that, to change or do something else that the creator has never done. No. I like that. It's an ache for me. Oh. When I, when I say, one, two, three. And you come and do it. One, two, three. I don't forget that. Like I'm not asking for the extra. Yeah. Yeah. Trying to, you're trying to tell me, I don't know what I'm doing. Really. That's how I feel. And I also say, am I cut this out of a year? Let me for say in this. Yeah. Cut this out. But you have, every time I was sent, like, am I like something or reposted something? And there's like, that dance, you like it, because they're not even like, you have a very like, you know, strict, like TikTok dancing and like versus like choreography. And like, I don't know how to explain it. Like you're very strict about dancing. You're like, the way people move is very different from how they're supposed to move. So you know what I'm trying to say? Yeah. I'm very particular about certain moves. If I, I feel like I'm coming from a place where if you don't know it's acts before you do it. Or if you don't, if you might know it and you're just playing with it. I like it when people are very intentional about doing what they think. If you are, if you are doing legwork, if you don't know how to do it. But you love legwork. I can't tell. I can tell you love legwork. And that is totally YouTube. That's fine. But then you know how to do legwork, but you're fully with it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I don't forget. Okay. All right. Dance. You have a dance as ik. I don't dance. You know what I mean? You own field. Oh, a creator egg. Mine, I hate, hate, hate creators who knock other creators for doing trends. A trend is a trend for a fucking reason. It's supposed to trend. It's supposed to trend. Like those, the narrator trend that happened and people were jumping on it. And everybody kept talking about how, oh, that's so weird. Why people do the narrator trend? It's retired now. It's not retired. They want to know it. They want to know it. But like, this is Sophie. And she woke up this morning thinking that they don't know. Okay. That one. Yeah. And people were just blaming people like, oh, like what are we doing this? It's not fair. And I'm like, let people create. Yeah. Like, let me have fun. Like, nothing online is innovative. I promise you that the only thing is, if it doesn't listen to what you don't do, it's like, if I post a joke that I do something online, I post a joke, I promise you, someone in Korea has done the joke before. I know it's just been in English. You know, I mean, like, nothing in life is new. People don't have, I feel like, sorry, I forgot to. I feel like, now I do the trends that are coming out from like, back in the days. Yeah. Oh, coming back. So like, no one has ownership over anything. So people are very strict about trends and whatever. I feel like that always, like, annoys me. What's going on? Okay. So what's the dance move that needs to be retired? Rapid fire endurance. Rapid fire. I wasn't in rapid fire. Yes. Yeah. Give me that smooth vibe. No. No dance should be retired. Really? Yeah. Okay. Okay. I have one. Dance dance. I have one. Yeah. This one. It should be retired. Yeah. I do know why I feel like the fact that people tend to use that a lot is because people like that a lot. And when you add that kind of dance to any routine you've created, it makes people show interest. Relatable. It's relatable forever. Yeah. All right. One red flag was actually kind of sexy. Red flag that is sexy. Mm-hmm. Nothing for me? Yeah. Nothing. Really? It's not sexy. It's not sexy. Jealousy? Jealousy. Shh. It's not. That's black. Jealousy is a red flag. But you're a jealous person. You go. I do. Jealousy. You are not. There's a difference between jealousy and once and something. Uh-oh. Okay. Hold on. Hold on. Let's talk about this. Not envy. Jealousy. I think jealousy is a, I think jealousy is a red flag. Find jealous. Like we're both successful people. Yeah. I can be jealous of your success and not be envious about it. Okay. Be jealous of my success. It's like it's a natural human emotion. I can't once what you have. It's a natural thing. But I don't act on it. It's the same thing. Yeah. But my day is like jealousy. You don't pre-empts jealousy. You pre-empts envy. Meaning like with jealousy, I'm not planning to be jealous of you. Maybe you can be having a conversation now. And you say something that I'm like, I have a feeling. I feel jealous with you about it. Oh, okay. I'm going to react to certain way. And that way is I'm not going to, I'm going to ask for advice, whatever way you don't believe that. And then okay. You just ask me where my red flag is. That's not sexy. I said jealous. Oh, yeah. I said jealousy is not sexy. Okay. Fine. I think it is. It's sexy. Yeah. Okay. That's your point. Are you fighting me about this? I don't fight you. I'm not fighting you. You're together in aggressive stance. I know this angry with you. I agree with you. Remember that? Your mom. I disagree. I disagree. Okay. A trend you refuse participate in no matter how viral. There are few. Are you sure? I feel like you're very strict. We're all you participate in. The fun that is a trend doesn't mean I would want to do it to get numbers. Yeah. Because you have the numbers. It's not about me having the numbers. Yeah. It's not because I have the numbers. Yeah. Because till this date, I still want to feel. I still want to relate with the song, with the trend and everything to be able to deliver. So that someone else will feel it to do it as well. That's why it's called a trend because someone else did it out of passion and now you've seen it and then it's flying. It's supposed to be rapid fire. What is the one celebrity you want to battle in a dance off? No one. Really? Not why? No. But it's for fun. Just for fun. Like who would you want to dance with? Who's a big celebrity? That one to dance with? Yeah. I have a few. I've danced with Usher before. Her sister said Usher in the background. I'm not talking about that. Think about it. Do you have to be a dancer? No. Like a musician that's a dancer? Yeah. I would want to dance with Chris Brown. Okay. Okay. I would want to dance with Tiana Taylor. Oh, I love Tiana. Yeah, I would want to dance with... Those are all the choices. For now? That's all the choice. That's okay. That's all the choice. Thank you. Okay. You're welcome. Okay. How was your plan? This is not rapid fire now, but when I was curious about this, how was your platform changed? How you like move through the world now? Because like I think I don't know. I think you're very like calm. You're very reserved to chill. Has that always been that way? Or is it more of like your platform and like how you've grown? Like your celebrity? I like that question. Because celebrity? Guys, the nearest celebrity? No. Oh my god. Pause. I just want to talk about this thing that I saw recently to the Ghanian influencers. Ghanian people watching this influencers are celebrities too. And I am not a part of the influencer culture here in Ghanak, but I was scrolling through and a bunch of my mutuals were dragged into something. And like we had a conversation about it. And I was like first of all, there's so many creators and influencer celebrities who are influencers and influencers who can be celebrities. The point of being called an influencer is you influence conversation, right? Somebody who is influencing conversations. A lot of people and creators who are influencing conversations. So they are celebrities. As soon as we get to a certain time or like stage, you can tell like, oh, this is celebrity status. I always tell her that I see your paparazzi following you around. Like we might go places now. And like I'm over here, like I want to be in computer sometimes and I'm traveling just to relax and get away from like social media and working. And hey, you just see somebody reporting videos and passing by and I'm like, how does that affect you? Like how does that change your view of the world? About what you just said then. About what you just said about the whole. They saying that influencers are celebrities. That's it boils down to when I said it's a generational perspective. Yeah. People are finding it hard to embrace the new, the new know. That's true. Which is positive, by the way. Yeah. But then when I started content creation, I used to post I can record 10 videos a day. I can go to the market, place, dance. I can record in one outfits. Sometimes I change. But then as time as I started growing, I realized that it's not about the quantity but the quality you put out there. That's true. So now the fact that I'm laid back because I'm getting to learn and on learn certain things that is going to resonate with my beliefs right now because my beliefs and values have changed. So I think what it is for me right now is my beliefs and my values and how I see things have changed. Yeah. Because I write out puts out something quality out there. Yeah. Then puts a lot of videos and it doesn't make sense. Yeah. Yeah. So yeah, I think that's that's what it is right now because right now I can randomly post 10 videos in a span of two hours. Yeah. That's because you'll never do that though. I do that. Really? I post videos at odd hours. You do do that. You don't care about the algorithm. I don't care about the algorithm. But I don't do that again for clients because yeah, it has put me in a lot of trouble. So I don't do that. Okay. So one of one reason why I wanted to have both of us in the podcast too is how different we are. Right. And I say that because what is smiling already? Yeah. And knowing like personality wise we're like different in like our perception of like we're both African women who are doing we're doing our thing. And like we're very unapologistically ourselves. And when we met those were the first things I told you I was like you're so yourself. And they're very few women who grew up within the continent who were able to just be their fucking self. Like don't care about what other people think. Don't care about anything else. Just like live and exist. Like the way you do. So first of all props to you for like doing that. And there was one time in December I was trying really hard to find that message and I can't find them. So I'm going to try to find it. But I got a long message on Snapchat from an odd fan person who was like it makes sense like you're an endurance of friends because like she was like as a young African woman to see a different type of African woman represent us means a lot. Like this is not a knock on it's not typical African woman, right? But to see us on the global stage as being ourselves I think it's so inspirational for young women. So my question is what does that responsibility feel like? And I can answer it first and then you can answer it. Yeah. Because I feel like I didn't know how deep it was that I was just doing me. But so I started getting more comments about the fact that I'm doing me. Like my mom's episode I'm still getting deems about young girls feel like they don't have support of their family their parents about folks who want to dream big who want to chase this social media thing or who wants to just talk about anything from sex to religion to life to love. And they're just so scared of like other people talking because I'll come into talk. They talk on the yap on the end. They shame you and they make you feel bad about it. I didn't know it was that deep until I realized that there are so many young girls who look up to us and like want to figure out how they can just be like us. So like what does that always look like? I feel like I'm scared half the time because I feel like I don't want I'm not so much remodeled. I don't think I am. I think I'm just leaving my life and I'm putting it online in hopes that if someone is watching it they can realize that it's just life. Like there's only one life you have so you should leave it however you want to because nobody's living your life for you. Like no matter who or whatever anyone thinks about you just live your fucking life. But how does that responsibility feel like being who you are? It makes me feel careful mentally, mentally because I'm going to explain. So there are certain things that there are certain habits that I had before like all of this my my fame came up. Yeah. There are a lot of habits I had but because I didn't have people that like they look up to me and they would want to my story inspires them. The access and habits that I didn't drop but now that I've gotten to have gotten to have realized that there's no point trying to keep those habits and put a different paint a different picture of myself out there. So it has made me careful mentally because when I'm inside when I'm in my closet right now deep down I'm an adult and I know what's wrong and what's right. So I sit and I'm like okay is this a picture I'm trying to paint of I don't want to be one of those people that come out and say this and they're doing something different back though. So it keeps me grounded. Well I like that you know so it keeps me that's why I said it makes me careful of this life in general people. Yeah just life in general because if what's if you can't catch me and then you have disappointed in my break so my such a careful person. Yeah my my my fame can can break and make someone. Yeah you feel like it's made you is what? Do you feel like you're a fame the one that you have now is it scary you doesn't inspire you like how do you not because I never actually this like I don't I don't know how you react to fear. I don't me I don't like fame you don't I don't like to be famous I love it it's very far yeah I know I know I know that but I don't know if I told my society I don't know if I told you that but I was talking to someone the other day and I was like I don't know why court would give me a talent that requires me to be famous but I'm not the kind of person I'm a reserved I'm the kind of band that I want to I don't want they house like I want to be home and still do what I love but this is just how it is this is just how it is and then just to make money big money of course of course make money but fame being famous is it's not something then that's I fancy I don't fancy fame interesting I love him that's why that's why I'm always like in this like you know what there was a day I wanted to be outside I want to be outside you know what she want to be outside because there's no toilets yeah and if you if you pee if you pee inside toilets waiting to be your own there's a lot there's there's a possibility that you get infection and I don't want that so you write up your outside I write up your outside with gems the I know P.O.C.I.O.P. Lake you can't do that address your if no thanko you know you're still gonna let you do that right why can't I pee outside that's the first of all there's always signs that says no pee outside there's no sign I've seen so far so that kind of I still want to do the things that like you want to do like you can walk outside and know you can't you can't I can walk outside and know what you can I can walk outside and then who literally follow you when we're out yes but it doesn't mean I still want to do that we are being stubborn about you still wants doesn't mean you can I can't do it you should I they say I shouldn't but I want to do it okay well you should know yeah okay that's interesting okay last question and then we're gonna do a ready reaction and that's it what do you want your legacy to be 10 years from now that's a very good question so fine okay what I want my legacy to be I want to be I want people that I've come that I've been I want to speak the English as a flu I wanted to say I want to be remembered but then I don't want Dino you're not gonna die now yeah yeah but I want to be remembered as the girl who pioneered the way paved the way like a lot of people are peeping the way I didn't say I'm looking by anybody I'm talking about you why are you pushing the wheel off you like that I was going on this is what I mean but like you know ones to accept your greatness and what you do most of my friends I tell them all the time like I think I think I tell you this I think you're like you you're like the shy creative who's not like fully seen and know that they're the shit like I think there's a difference when you get to a point where like oh no I'm the shit like you have a huge following like you're a star you're a performer you're a creative you're talented like you can actually fucking act if you couldn't act how I've told you when I saw the movies I was nervous you can do all these things but you have this aura of like being reserved and it's interesting because your sister is not that way this is a kind of even the most of it that's why they always ask me how how did it end up to be like my sister yeah but I think that's like a good balance because imagine no it's not about you acting like your personality you know I mean it's like I see that and I always say like people also need people who are grounded like you but I also want you to know to talk your shit so before you finish answering your dog question I want you to talk your shit talk my shit yeah say who you are brag about yourself you can go right away yourself real quick I am I just know that I just have to do it that's like what I'm going to do for all every single person I come to the podcast I'm going to make them brag about themselves hype yourself be too fucking loud about I'm the best auntie that's such a cover no yes you are I am the best so actually well I am the best auntie I'm the best sister it should be best sister I know my shit I'm taking another time to do the best sister I'm a I'm a good friend okay who is not who's not like you're not trying to do you see we're still going to try and to amplify yourself like your achievements right especially because as women we're oftentimes told to be shy to be demeanor like don't talk about how well you're doing when men don't have that audacity not to like a man can be mediocre and not know his shit but still come on the man can say oh yeah I let the charge for this and this and this and I'm the most follow that I'm so unfair I want you to brag about yourself I especially your achievements too and you can't cop out I'm telling you I am grateful for my achievements I'm not saying you're not grateful that's what I am changing that I'm not bragging about my achievements why not I am grateful for the achievements I've been able to be both I got talk I can I talk yeah you called me here to talk I'm grateful for my achievements and one thing one thing I am one thing I would want to brag I would want to brag about that but one thing I that makes me stand out makes me unique is I can do a lot of things okay as long as you catch my attention yeah I can't do it that's the no bragging yeah that's that's if I'm there as your bragging I don't know what you want for me I don't know what you want for me I don't know what you want for me I don't know what you want for me let me give you an example what did I want to brag about I can't say that's on your stream what do you know what are you trying to brag about I don't know yeah is this what let's see if it's all you know yeah let nobody knows yeah yeah is that it I think so what is it oh yeah that one too I won't brag about that one what are you talking about what are you bragging about I couldn't I'll put it out promise what am I going to get the fuck move away no what no get away I've been was like seriously you really I was what were we aligning no it doesn't like me I'm gonna lie today that's let's pitch SKETCH and you know someone wants to brag about yourself so fee I really want you to I mean I think this is something this is healing for young women watching tell me some achievement oh oh I can do that I can do that and I can tell you that you should look yourself in a mirror and know that's not you it's my special you're powerful but for real as a woman as a woman we hold so much power that we shouldn't let someone tell us otherwise or stand on it as a woman eh I don't know I don't know if I'm a feminist you think I'm a feminist really yeah don't let foolish people just tell you or destroy you from everything everybody has bad actors I don't know why you're calling please fully sure now what's going on with you I just ask you a simple question I buy a fat do you think I'm a feminist why so I think people ask me that is because they're they've the family being a feminist has been co-opted by bad actors that means like what is the other one for the co-opted you just said me they hear why they love what's the other one for co-opted taking over they've taken over oh yeah took a lot of people let me be co-opted the word feminist right because what they would say is like oh what's feminist you're like oh man should die or this adopt for they're very aggressive with it but similar they're like in Islam Islam is a religion of peace and the people who are fighting was on behalf of a religion of peace they're bad actors there by the core of it feminism is believing in the in the equity and equality of men and women meaning like creating equitable solutions for women across the world because we live in a patriarchal society especially the western society so you're a feminist because you do want men and women to be treated equally exactly and equally in terms of like oh not all of us have to be giving the exact same thing but more so be treated with in accordance to the things that we are providing just be fair not because of the what's we have this is why we are here Yeah. Dipped? I want you to check up. I'll keep you back in. Oh, another thing. Granted body. Fallen, I was just gonna see her kill her shit. Oh my god. I wanna say another thing. You're still not gonna brag about yourself. I am not gonna do that. Why? It's not me. I wonder who would be the first person to brag on the podcast. Ah. Chatter you. Who? Any? You go brag. Any word, brag. I can't wait for that. Okay. Also, what is, you just said this. And Justin and Justin. Justin, what? No, I feel like Justin might not. Jocelyn. Joyce? Yeah. Madam Joyce? Yeah, yeah. The podcast. Is that her full name? I don't know. Well, then I'll get with the podcast. Madam Joyce. You can. Yeah. That's so interesting. So, you think of full name? I know, bro. So, what's one piece of advice it gives to the girl still dancing in front of her mirror in Ghana with no followers who really, really wants to be one endurance grand. First of all, don't be endurance grand. Here you go. Be you. Be true. Be true. And it's okay to dance in front of the mirror because as long as you're doing it consistently, you are doing it to build yourself. So take your time. Don't rush it. Keep looking at yourself in the mirror. Dance. Look at yourself. Practice. You don't, you wouldn't need someone to tell you already. You are going to know you're ready when you're ready. So, don't rush it. Just keep dancing in front of the mirror. I like the reference you just give. Keep dancing in front of the mirror. Keep practicing. That is all I have to tell you. Keep practicing. Don't be like me. Don't do it like me. Do it like yourself. I love that. Yeah. Because we, again, we're talking about this the other day, about being a content creator and people feeling like, oh, they're not sure where to start. And I was like, just start. If you think you're not confident in front of the camera, just do it on that camera. Sit down. You don't have to post it. Yeah. Just start talking. Talk if dance. We're just talking to your sister about that. Just start posting talking videos because you're funny and people want to see you. And you don't have to do it perfectly. You don't. Have you seen Sophie's face YouTube video? Ah. You just wanted to see that. Okay. Now let me add mine. I like YouTube video. My first video. Because why are you putting me outside of it? Woah, Woah, Stop it! I killed it. You know Killam. It's not that. You said they talk. Don't move it's now. Okay. Oh my God. Yeah, just I just feel like guys went Africa. Do it yeah, do it starts from some way you get somewhere when you start from some way and I feel like he's so he just drops head trope hack to inspire you guys He's a good like to be disturbing. Yes kill it's right now if Do you know what's funny? I don't know That could be like a mother that could be like a father that could be like a child that's what You are so me All right last thing Last question before we have to go I don't want to go really Yeah, fun. That's fun. Really? Yeah, good hosts. Oh period I'm so excited for my own TV show one day. Hmm. What has been too loud mean to you now Too loud. Yeah, like you're too loud. Yeah, you're like you're sure too loud. No, like too loud being too loud As if someone says someone's too loud too confident to whatever because if someone was very reserved. So what does that mean to you? Too loud can mean a lot of things for me. Okay Too loud can mean You are showing you are showing it and you're showing it in a good way like is a lot is a lot to handle Do you think I'm a lot to handle? Yeah, lots of them in a good way in a bad way as well Ha ha. Oh, it's up to other parts. Are you too loud? Yeah, yes But that's fine. You are loud and that's fine. Yeah, I always tell you this. Yeah That is that is what makes you stand out from other people. Yeah, right? And that is totally fine So my understanding of too loud can be in a bad way and in a good way That's it has a lot of meaning to it. Okay. Yeah, before we close out I want to bring one special guest on I want to close out with endurance sister because honestly I don't think there's an endurance without her sister in the back always like showing up for her I'm here. I don't go for that. Come and come and sit No, no, for real. I'm very guilty. No, no, you know, sis. You stand. Yeah, what would you see? It's I don't mind Do you want to see sis? Oh, you guys are matching Please don't for real. Me cool. Me cool. Okay, that's fire. What do you want to introduce? Let me see who's an endurance sister who we're referencing the same tire. That's my title, please. Let me see. Your dress is going to be nice. Yeah, this is my original friend Hi, friend. I wonder how your friend is going to feel about that. Which one? Well, I'm her friend. No, that's like a best friend I'm your original friend. It's like between the both of you. Oh Yeah, look at this. I'm close with your head. No, I'm saying I'm closer to you than I'm with her. Yeah, what friends first? Yeah All right, let's go. Yeah, that's it. I'm just going to say hi to the camera. Hi camera. I was the one behind the production Although making sure that the sounds and everything was going correctly It's going now. Well, I'm actually working with Mr. Donard. I'm the African branch manager I think that is I see all this purple. Hey Lucky man, please cast this part. So I'm actually the So cute production manager and yeah, I'm working with Mr. Donard because he can't make it here something happened and he just can't be here. So yeah Guys, you know, it's crazy like they say people in the world were like if you give them a mic They won't know what to say. You just did a whole two minutes talk. It's not super. It's so very fast. I'm not coming to minutes Yeah, no point is it I was exaggerating for the point that you're talking about To round me darling. So guys, yeah Thank you guys and I hope you guys enjoyed this. I actually didn't enjoy it From our superstar and our host superstar also on the superstar production manager in Africa Yeah, what's the accent coming from? I'll tell you the breath is You know what breath is No for you guys Hey guys, I think that'll be the end of the episode But I want to ask on this three of final question You said that's did you think your sister was going to be who she is today? Or Nestle? Nah Really? Yeah, she's how she's always been doing about from she being on social media And when we complain like oh, it doesn't reach out. It doesn't pick cause it doesn't text about she takes chili Something that's the way she's Down to family members so that's why mama That's the way she's so like I feel like I have found the way Maybe not because maybe some of my sister I find the way to yeah, now if I want to talk to endurance now Like I talk to endurance right now. It's not you call it like 20 times. Oh Repeat if you want to offer to offer to our rest if loves me, but that responds to me So I feel like I'm not growing up. She's I wasn't quite Mr. So I was even close to my prime Mr. Conduce me and all of that I was a top actress like I know how to ask drama I was a bad step like I know how to dance Well, well, I don't know if it's what happened in life that us I don't know if she passed or maybe we said left and then we switched roles and not those films I don't know what happened though. That wasn't I wasn't the entertainment version. She's always this kind of she'll hype you like If you know what I have in dance competition and I know that this does Stop I'll say words. I'm gonna go back to start And I was just about to just do cool. I didn't want to be sure because then I looked at her like someone who can dance or do anything really Yeah, so I was to wait for steps coming up like I might start see she dropped my leg is over who not high pilot and then all of a sudden I see her dancing I wasn't really a big supporter of the dance itself because yeah, she liked to tease me a lot. She's she's she's I want to be one way I don't know if she does is I just don't if I just don't want to text for sale one way Like I think of that you always does see what we want but that that's a change that's really yeah, so see If you want us to follow my mother's I tell people that if you are on me and they can get passed my kisses is like You want me to tell you life Feel like it was a motivation for me. Yeah, yeah, because that's not true. That's no no that's possible Yeah Good and mixed moves guys, but you know it's funny. It's actually connects to what we're talking about because like I go to my message from a career and follow and she was talking about how she wasn't feeling support Now I'm like for a lot of people start. You know, it's gonna feel supported. Yeah, so persons actually I think some persons have support Yeah, I'm like some persons going to pass you where let's do this. You're more that said good. They buy your first sneakers in their house We are more than to be a lawyer. Yeah, you're not left low. I see what to do football They beat away the spirit for me. You did so many many annoyances. Are you saying it's dancing? Who in Nigeria? I think it's just not that it's coming up like that. Yeah, it's coming up like that. And for sure me, I'm making money or trying to get a name. Yeah, who is that that we know from Africa before a coffee Say that is true. That's that you know that's hasn't made all the professional dancer I'm the crewman for now you know So I feel like it didn't make sense to them. You okay? Yeah, okay, they make sense to them So I didn't really see it. I actually felt I'll be the one who's everybody who knows great enough for thousands of people to be there I'm gonna be a drama person or most of the time I'm gonna be an actress I'm gonna be a drama person or a dancer but if I was gonna be on this bushy bar, but anybody But man, I love you know family room I'm guys. I'm a jazzy mom Many I'm a jazzy. All right guys. The end of the party. Please. I'm a jazzy mom. I'm a jazzy I'm a mom How no wife All right guys. Thank you so much for listening to my sloth the podcast with selfie aka daughtery Ta-da to mommy's sweet and endurance grand for being my second and third to z-touch Z-touch. Oh my god. By the way, these pants are from z-touch At my top and her top as well and there's a lot of this stuff has to be so put on Yes, I don't want to talk about this Yeah, so I don't know what I have to that's it. Yeah, so I just have to run up. I have to just train your face for being good in my mic. I won't You will fit me You think I want to talk with us because you're tall. I'll talk. Oh, all right guys. Thank you so much for watching The podcast selfie aka daughtery. I will see you guys in my next video I'm at your love I'm at your love. Thank you so much for having us. Bye I'll talk to you. I'm at your stand. You see